Best Friend. Home girl. Buddy. Pal. Whatever term it is that you use, are these people really your friends?
Ya’ know there is a saying that says, “I would rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies” and it’s referring to friends and I couldn’t agree more. As I’m getting older (gosh that makes me sound like I’m really old hahaha) I’ve realize that having a ton of “friends” isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be. No, no I got me a few quarters and I’m good to go! 😉👍
Majority of people just don’t want to feel alone, so they attach to other people in an attempt to fill that space of being by themselves. In actuality, they don’t have “friends” they just have “space keepers” (I just made that up, but hey it fits and you get it LOL) that just so happen to have similar interests.
Let me help you out here, if you are constantly finding yourself making “friendships” with people who lie to you to spare your feelings, people who don’t let you know when you’ve messed up, and/or people who aren’t helping you grow in life, people who are just keeping you stagnant, they are not your friends!! They are a distraction from who you could be and if you are that person, help out your “friends” and do better or just eliminate yourself from their life. Either way you’re helping them.
This isn’t a post bashing your “friends”. This is a post, with me being a friend to you, trying to help you see who your true friends are and/or should be. I only want what’s best for you, and that’s real.
I hope you take this seriously, and seek out your “quarters” in life and hold on tight to them, they are the real MVP! 🙂
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Have an awesome day, friend!